8/22/10
My little weekend getaway to see Erin in West Virginia. I will blog about my trip soon. Every time I think about it makes me teary eyed. I miss you Erin!
8/22/10
My little weekend getaway to see Erin in West Virginia. I will blog about my trip soon. Every time I think about it makes me teary eyed. I miss you Erin!
The Reba concert was just as I expected…AMAZING! I went with my 2 good friends Angie & Mindy, we had such a wonderful time!

Melissa Peterman-AKA Barabara Jean (her character on TV show Reba) opened for her. She is hilarious!
Reba came out and sang new songs & old songs. I loved singing along reminiscing about the older songs she was signing. Love, Love, Love, that is all I can say!
If you are friends with me on Face Book, I will have all the videos I took during the concert, but here I wanted to showcase how she ended the show.
She left the stage and I was so disappointed that she didn’t sing Fancy. The crowd was up on their feet chanting, applauding, screaming and then her video for Fancy started playing. The crowd & Us went crazy!
Reba came out in a red dancing dress….
Watching these videos today still give me the goosebumps! I am so blessed that I was able to see her live in concert!
We were up early, dressed, lunch packed, breakfast eaten and hair gelled! Noah was looking pretty cool this morning. He was a good sport when I asked him to let me take his picture. He said, “wait…let me get my book bag!”
He made sure I had the whole 1st day back to school photo!
I can’t believe he is in Middle School and in the 7th Grade! His back pack is filled with school supplies, but not all of them. There was so much required for him to have, that he will have to take it all in over the next several days.
I know that he will have a blast this school year and we are blessed that he likes school and is a great student!
I seriously can’t wait to see her in concert tonight! Me and 2 of my good friends are having post birthday celebration with REBA!!! I just have to remember to take my camera
I love lots of things, I could name products or food items, but for this week I am going to express my love for my children.
I am truly blessed to have the best kids in the world! Everyone knows I have 4 children, but my darling daughter is 19 now and has moved out and living her life…ahhh to be 19 again
So I don’t get to see her much, she is sooo busy all the time.
School is starting on Monday for our oldest son, he is going to be in the 7th grade. Middle school! This week has been busy getting him ready and we are cramming as much fun as we can before Monday. He is excited and so are we! He is growing into such a young man, I can’t be more proud of him.
Elias is not so happy about school. He is going into 3rd grade. Sometimes I can wrap my brain around that, he was just born..right?…RIGHT?! He has expressed to me this can not be happening, school can not be starting in 2 weeks. Summer is not over, there is so much more to do. He is just the cutest.
Then there is Adam…the baby! This baby is 5 and is going to start Kindergarten. NO!!! He was placed in PM Kindergarten, He and Elias will have a school tour next week. I am so nervous, but happy that Adam’s big brother will be with him.
I am stepping into a new roll as a Mom. I have been a SAHM for 8 years and have always had a child at home during the day. I will have hours filled with quiet, no running through the house, no “Mom, can I have a snack?”, no arguing, no loud TV’s or video games, no eating lunch together and no more playdates during the middle of the week. Just quiet.
Time, I will have lots of time. I have some ideas of what I want to do with this time. Some Spring Cleaning (in the fall..LOL). I want to go through closets, toys, bathroom cabinets, things I have still in boxes from when we moved here..ahem 3yrs ago.. :) I want to join the gym & I want to start running again. I also want to get involved more in the kids school. Volunteer my time for anything they need.
It funny because as they go into a new adventure with new schools, new teachers…I begin one as well.
Even though I have big ideas about what to do while the kids are in school…..these children are my life, nothing, I mean nothing comes before them…ever! I love them to much to ever put something before them and their needs.
I mean look at these faces…they are just heaven on earth!

Noah

Elias

Adam
In preparation for a clowning around weekend with my besties, I thought I would share this photo of me (my sister & brother). In the early 80’s we had a clown group in our church and we would do little skits for kids, Nursing Homes and our Church itself.
If you can guess which person is me, you win a prize…well, no not really, but I would love to see which one you think I am
This past weekend was fun filled! I have the most amazing friends ever! Our playgroup had our summer annual Mom’s Night Out. I am surrounded by some of the most talented & wonderful Moms ever. All our members inspire me one way or the other.
Melissa, is the best professional photographer and she graciously offered to take our headshots. She has taken my families photos many times for me and for other members of my family. She is amazing at what she does! Here is the photo she took of me last Friday night.

This photo brings a huge smile to my face, because she captured how I feel about my weight loss. I am super thrilled! Even though I am not done yet, I am so happy with what I see so far. Oh and I was having a great hair day too…LOL!
I look back at the photo she took of Dale & I back in 2007 and ask myself “why did you wait so long?”

I have come to realize the more support I have while going along this weight loss journey the better I feel and the more motivated I am. Along with my Moms Group, my fellow Twitloss ladies, I have joined another site, The Sisterhood of the Shrinking Jeans! The more motivation & challenges the better…right? I am participating in 2 month long challenges over there and on Tuesday’s they have True Confessions. This where you blog about your UH-OH’s from the past week and then forget about it!
Here are mine TCT’s
I have several confessions this week. As I said before on Saturday we went to Red Lobster for my Birthday. Now I could have been a really good girl and ordered something not so full of butter, cream, carbs…but I didn’t! *SIGH*
Of course I ate a salad…good, right? Uhmmm no, I also ate 2 Cheddar Bay Biscuits. For dinner I ordered the Seafood Shrimp Trio, Fried Shrimp, Shrimp Scampi & Shrimp Alfredo!
You see that lovely pile of Broccoli..pretty…I didn’t order that..I had the baked potato, and before I knew what was coming out of my mouth, I said, “Butter & Sour Cream please!” Oh and the best part is when she came to give us our appetizer…yeah I had an appetizer too
I said, “I would like to have a Disaronno Sour.” *Shame, Shame, Shame”
I did bring most of my dinner home, but ate the rest of it about 2am. I am not done! Oh yeah there is more! See photo below…..
Whatever you do, do not look up the calories & fat for the Dairy Queen Caramel MooLatte’. And I thought I was being somewhat of a good girl, because when the girl said, “whipped cream and caramel top?” I said, “Oh just a smidgen.” And she did just what I asked and put a quarter sized dollop of whipped cream & caramel. ROFL!! That made it so much healthier…NOT!
Some bonus points….I have not had a baked potato or a Moolatte’ in almost a year and I have not had any alcohol since December. I could use the excuse that is was my birthday…blah,blah,blah…but really who am I kidding it is those stupid excuses that got me where I was a year ago.
Last but not least…chocolate!
Yesterday I was making a salad for dinner and next to my bottle of salad dressing is half a container of chocolate frosting. You will be happy to know I didn’t stick my face in it
but I also didn’t throw it out. If you ask me why I didn’t throw it out, I don’t think I could give you an good enough reason. Today I will throw it away, or give my sons a couple of spoons and let them have at it…LOL! After today it will be out of my fridge! Hold me accountable people, ask me about this later
It’s new week, I am turning around all the bad stuff from the weekend into good stuff! I have made some great food choices and exercised everyday.
My motto…
“One good decision can turn around a bad day!”
39 years old that is
This past Saturday was my birthday and I had the best weekend. Dale is such a spoiler when it comes to my birthday, I mean he spoils me daily but on my special day he goes overboard! It was one of the most romantic weekends of my life!
Adam had his first sleep over at Uncle Brads & Aunt Suzies. She took our boys for the evening. Dale & I were worried about how Adam would do, but since Elias was there he did so well!
We headed off to a nice evening 24hrs alone! First a nice dinner, just the 2 of us. Dale & I don’t eat out anymore. He and I have done so well with weight loss and eating healthier we don’t have the need to go out. But since it was my special day, we went to Red Lobster….YUM! I even had a mixed drink….oh the calories, but I drank it and it was divine!
So much food, I could not eat it all and took most of my dinner home. The waitress said, “You hardly ate anything are you sure you are done?” If she knew that last year I could of eaten my dinner & Dales, she would have been proud of me for not eating all of that. LOL!
We headed to the Mall next, we walked into Dicks Sporting goods hand in hand and we trolled the exercise equipment section, Ohhh-ing & ahhhh-ing over all the of the treadmills, ellipticals and weights. Now that is romantic! I loved it! We do everything together and sharing weight loss and getting fit journey with him has been the icing on the cake!
When we got home, we watched several movies on the couch all snuggled up close together. We shared left over Red Lobster, talked & talked, laughed until our sides hurts and slept in.
It was the best birthday present he could have ever given me. Thank you sweetheart for the perfect weekend! I, too, have never loved someone so much before!
Me & My Sister Christina
To the outside world we all grow old. But not to brothers and sisters. We know each other as we always were. We know each others hearts. We share private family jokes. We remember family feuds and secrets, family griefs and joys. We live outside the touch of time. ~Clara Ortega
Happy Birthday Chris! I love you very much! I truly hope that you have a wonderful birthday and that you are spoiled rotten today! Thank you for everything you have done for me in the past and present. I am so blessed to have a sister like you!
Last week was Dale’s birthday. The kids and I made it extra special for him, because he is an extra special man! We made his favorites. Dark Chocolate Brownies with walnuts & chocolate frosting and soft shell crab sandwiches. His Mom used to come over on his birthday and move me out of the kitchen and make those very things for him. It was a really great evening! I even made little Brownie bites for him to take to work. Although he forgot to share and brought them back home that evening….ROFL! The best part was when he walked into the door after work all 3 of our boys ran up to him, hugging him and chanted Happy Birthday! They really love their Dad!
I really wished I had captured that on video! It was the most adorable thing!
Friday night Mom & I went to The Delaware State Fair to see Paula Deen. With temperatures near the 100 mark we both were kind of worried about sitting outside sweating it out just to see Paula. We saw a lot of people with paper fans with advertising on them, we set out to hunt them down. Walking through some of the buildings, I didn’t find a fan right away but found a cute pair of DG sunglasses for $10…score! And of course Silly Banz for Elias. Rounding the corner there they were a stack of fans. We grabbed 2 and headed to find our seats.
We didn’t have the best seats in the house and that was fine by us, because looking at the “good seats” I was glad I wasn’t sitting in them. The people were all packed together with no shade from the sun. We were very grateful for the over hang of the grandstand and the A/C that would blow over us every time the door to the clubhouse opened.
The set up they had for her was amazing! A working kitchen right there on the stage.
Paula came out and I was surprised to see how small she was. Tiny little legs..lol.
Her husband came out and also her son and grandson Jack. What a cutie he was.
I was really thankful for the big screen and close ups
She didn’t do any cooking, but had a chef cooking some things on stage. She told funny stories and I can say this she LOVES her fans! The whole night she interacted with the audience, she took time to sign autographs and have small one on one conversations. It was really great! She also praised God for all her success. What an awesome testament to him!
Paula was telling us about the best banana pudding you ever put in your mouth and she just happened to have one already prepared. She shocked us all by giving the pan of pudding to a stage hand and told him to pass it around…ROFL! People were actually lining up to get a sample…the sample being a spoonful dropped in their hands!
“Just wipe your spoon off and pass it around”
The concert was great, I really thought she would be more like she was on her show, but as she said, “You can turn on your TV and see me cooking at least 3 times a day.” Paula is the sweetest person and really funny! I truly enjoyed it.
After the show we went to check on the entries Mom put in the fair and she won a couple of prizes! I knew she would
1st Place for her Applesauce Cake
2nd Place for her Pound Cake
2ns Place for her Blackberry Jam
3rd Place for her Strawberry Jam
And you can’t leave the fair with out getting to experience the farm animal exhibits. I took these photos for Adam.
Now, how cute are they?
On my way out of the fair I realized that I need a present for Adam. Lord knows his world would have turned upside down if I gave Elias something and not him. I settled on a light up sword. The kind that make all the noises when you swing it around…..I am now regretting that decision…..immensely!
Twitloss! I have said that word before to some of my friends and I get a puzzled look. What the heck is that??
Well, if you take Twitter (another thing I love) and weight loss (something I have a love/hate relationship with), put them together with a bunch of great ladies…you get Twitloss!
Back in February I was following some amazing ladies on Twitter (aspiring writers and die hard romance readers-because I love PNR Books, which is another TILT post in itself). They were talking about starting a blog about weight loss but using Twitter as well. I was all over that idea, because when you are going through a weight loss journey you need all the support you can get!
February 26th Twitloss lanched!
Isn’t that a great tag line? I adore it!
Here is the 1st blog post by Dara aka-@dyromance
“Welcome to Twitloss…women twittering with purpose. We are a group of avid romance readers and a couple aspiring writers who tweet about romance books. We all realized we needed to get up, get moving, get healthy, and loose some weight. Naturally, doing it together is better than suffering alone so we agreed to blog and tweet about our experience. Hence, Twitloss! We will be using the #twitloss hash tag on twitter and five days a week one of us will post a blog entry giving an update on our progress and experience. At the top of the page you will find each of our names. Click on them to find out who we are and what our goals are. Stop by to give and get support in your own weight loss effort and hopefully some valuable lessons learned.”
I can’t tell you how much I appreciate and care about these ladies. They are so supportive, laugh with you, hug you, kick you in the butt when you need some motivation, give great advice, make you feel you are not alone, give high fives and celebrate with you when you achieve a goal and even though I have never met any of them, I am proud to call them my friends.
If you are on Twitter and thinking about starting a weight loss journey or you have been on one, join us. As I said before you can never have to much support and going through this with other people, experiencing the same high & lows as you, is even better!
Water hose fight in the pool, Daddy is using Elias as a human shield!
7/18/10
I did this layout a while ago & it remains to be one of my favorites!
Adam

Photo taken by Melissa: Blue Bug Photography
Last night we declared a Movie Night! We had several movies we wanted to watch this weekend, so at Wal-Mart I told our boys to pick out some “movie candy” and I would go get the pop-corn and we would met back in the middle. I raced off to get the pop-corn (ultimate butter, of course!) and when I came back to met them they were in the ice cream isle. Instead of getting one big tub of ice cream they each picked out little tiny single servings of Edy’s. I went with Skinny Cow, which by the way is yummy!
We get home and after 2 hours of swimming, we started getting ready. Blankets and pillows everywhere. I had bowls of pop-corn set out, Noah picked Junior Mints and Mint Chocolate Chip ice-cream, Elias had Bottle Caps and Cookie Dough ice-cream and Adam had the DS (LOL) Sour Skittles and Cookie Dough ice-cream.
My pictures aren’t very good, because I was in a hurry and heard, “Mom we are trying to watch the movie!”
I said, “I am making memories!”
Boys, “We won’t remember the last part we saw if you keep flashing us with the camera.”
Bwahahahahahaha….Point taken!



Adam didn’t make it through the second movie and was asleep by midnight. The rest of us were up until 1am and after I went to bed I heard laughing and those 2 little stinkers (AKA-Noah & Elias) were still up at 2:30! Guess who is still sleeping as I type this post?
We have had movie night before, but never with all the little things that make it a real movie night! It was awesome family time!!
I really hate eating in the morning, truly I do. I have found a new love for Breakfast. Going through my weight loss journey, I have learned you have to eat breakfast.
Here part of an article I read about why you should eat breakfast.
“If you don’t eat something in the morning, you are literally forcing yourself into running on empty. Say the last time you ate was 8 p.m. last night. If you didn’t eat lunch until noon today, that’s sixteen hours of no refueling! Your body is screaming out, “Give me some help here!”
The fuel that keeps our motors running is glucose. Your brain and your nervous system need glucose to work: that means walking, speaking, stretching, typing - any activity requires this fuel. If you don’t supply it, your system resorts to finding stored carbohydrates or it tries to turn fat into glucose. Why put your body through all this?”
At first I was eating an egg and a piece of whole wheat toast. That really gets old after a week or 2. I was hanging out in the cereal isle, patiently waiting for my boys to pick out their cereal for the week and saw the Kashi display. I had heard people compare it to eating styrofoam rice cakes…yummy, right? I read the back of a couple of boxes and was really happy that I could have a bowl with my 1% milk for less than 300 calories..SCORE! The price was a little high for me, but I found eating healthier does cost a bit more, so it didn’t bother me to bad. I figured if it taste bad I would go back to the egg.
I settled on Kashi Go Lean Crunch Honey Almond Flax.
It was so yummy! The crunchy little clusters, the almonds and the slight sweet taste was so good! 9 grams of protein, which helps keep me full longer and 200 calories! Good stuff I tell you!!
After I finished that box, which lasted a week, because I ate the recommended serving size, I tried different ones.
Strawberries & Raspberries , rice/wheat flakes, low fat & 120 calories for 1 cup…Oh yeah!! So wonderfully good!
When I was younger I love Frosted Mini Wheats, this is an awesome alternative! 180 calories for 1 cup, 1 gram of fat and no sodium! And let’s not forget cinnamon! Love this!
I like love Kashi!
If you have not had a chance to taste it, go out and get a box! You will be pleasantly surprised and maybe learn to love breakfast like I do now!
You can sign up for their newsletter and get coupons..Bonus!!
Twenty-Five Weeks! This is the longest I have ever done something, well except carrying my children to a full term pregnancy
Time is ticking by some times quickly, most of the time slowly. Just like in the last weeks of pregnancy I think to myself, good lord how much longer and will I make it. The answer to those questions is yes! Because anything worth having is worth fighting for.
Summer has been so far the hardest to get through. Making time to workout, like I used to some times in almost impossible. I am getting maybe 2-3 days in a week (if that). And that is not enough. On 7/2 I lost 3lbs and I had a feeling I wasn’t going to lose any this week and I didn’t. I am still eating what I should, drinking my water, but I have to find a happy medium between my chaotic household and my workout routine. How many hours are in a day again? LOL!
The other day I was getting myself ready to dive into some Scrap therapy. Ahhh scrapbooking, my replacement for chocolate. Feeling down about not getting my workouts in and not being as motivated as I should to figure out a way to solve it; I sat down to scrap. OMG the emotion that came out of me onto the page was just incredible. The only other time I have cried when doing a layout was when I did a layout about my Grandmother. This time I cried for me. Cried sad tears for the one side of my layout and cried happy tears for the other side. Ok, I cried almost through the whole thing.
Journaling reads:
I remember that girl. I was her friend. She was always happy, joking, smiling or at least that is what she wanted people to believe. She was actually disgusted, miserable and depressed. A change was about to happen, what she didn’t know was it would change her life. A little less feeling sorry for herself and more loving herself. A tad bit more confidence & less resistance. I was that girl. I am truly happy now & I love me. No more self destruction, just determination!
65lbs gone in one year and 40 more to go. I am sure there are more hurdles to get over in my future, but this layout will be a great motivator to keep going. I see more crying in my future, because eventually I will get there, whether it takes 25 more weeks or 25 more months……I will have a layout entitled “I DID IT!“
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